Thursday, May 7, 2009

Today's the Day...

It was in mid May of 2006 that Kyle accepted the National Weather Service job in Brownsville, Texas. On my 50th birthday, Kyle and Steve were in Texas scouting out a place for Kyle to live. I stayed home and had myself a big ol' pity party. A couple of weeks later, with a smile on my face and a stiff upper lip, I bid Kyle goodbye as he and his dad drove "old blue" out of the driveway heading toward the Rio Grande Valley. I promised myself Kyle would not see my tears and much to my amazement I was able to keep that promise. However, the car was not out of sight before I had a total meltdown...the ugly kind complete with gutwrenching sobs! My son was headed to a strange place two thousand miles from home where he knew absolutley no one...no family to help him, no friends to call, no church family to rely upon. It was a test of faith...one that Kyle passed with flying colors and that I was able to get through only because of God's steady help.


NWS office in Brownsville, Texas.

While in Texas, Kyle flourished. He met great people, made good friends, and started his career in a job that he loves. Kyle took from Texas a friendship that will last a lifetime...thanks to Buddy, a great passion for photography...thanks to Jim and Darlene, a spirit of adventure that was gained from exploring a new area, and the growth that comes with finding one's own way in the world.

After a little over a year in Texas, Kyle called to tell us he had been chosen for a position in Eureka, which meant he would be much closer to home. Of course, we were ecstatic to have him return to the west coast. We got to see him much more often and we had some great trips to Eureka to explore the north coast with him. This leg of his journey also gave him the opportunity to meet more wonderful people, make more friends, and explore a new area that he came to really love...the giant redwoods, beautiful sunsets, cool weather, and walks on the beach and around the island. Kyle has been in Eureka for almost two years and it has been a blessing for him and for us.

NWS office in Eureka, California.

Today is the day Kyle's journey comes full circle...he is moving home!!! He starts work at his new office in Sacramento on Monday where I am sure he will meet more great people, make more friends, and have more opportunities for great experiences. Although I am thrilled to be getting Kyle back, I now see that he is not the same kid I watched drive away to Texas three years ago. He has grown and matured in ways that would have been impossible had he never left on this journey. He is coming home more confident, more independent, and more aware of God's presence, provision, and love. The journey was not always easy, but it was necessary because it was part of His plan for Kyle's life.

Welcome home Kyle and Happy Mother's Day to me...this is the best gift ever!!

8 comments:

Darlene said...

Beautiful post! I know that you are all so happy that Kyle is going to be so close again! That definitely is a good Mother's Day gift. =)

(Thanks for the kind words about us!)

darlene

Steve's girl said...

Hi Darlene,

Great to hear from you. Thanks for the nice comment.

Have a Happy Mother's Day!

Holly said...

awww what a beautiful post Mom Sandy! *hugs*

pops said...

It is awsome to have Kyle coming back to live in this area. Even though it won't be in our house, it won't be a 5-6 hour drive (or 2 1/2 days to Texas).

This post brought back a lot of memories of his journey. The drive to and from Texas gave Kyle and I very special time together. But when I flew out of Brownsville to leave him there, was very emotional.

Welcome back to the Sacramento area Kyle.

Steve's girl said...

Thank You Holly...*hugs* right back at ya! I know you are very happy to have Kyle in town for good too!! :)

Steve's girl said...

Hey Pops...we have much for which to be thankful. Our cups runneth over!

Jim said...

Ahh, all we did was introduce him to Texas chili, The Rocky Horror Picture Show, save him from a near fatal Ocelot attack (he was covered in "El Pollo Loco" chicken so you can't blame the Ocelot) and teach him to say "ya'll" (he never did get it right).

I'm happy he's starting this new chapter in his life close to home but we still miss the lad, NOT TO MENTION THE COOKIES!

Happy Mother's Day!

Steve's girl said...

Hi Jim,

That's not all you introduced Kyle to...he now claims that snakes are his favorite animal to watch at the zoo! He NEVER said that before BRO!!

About the cookies, er, well, umm, I guess the postal service lost them!! I will see what I can do about that! :)